Pretty much what the title says, I struggle to stay while doing any kind of sexual activity with my fwb whether it be penetrative sex or even just bjs which is really embarassing. Usually I get hard in the beginning but can only stay so for like maybe a minute before i go soft and struggle to get it hard again despite her also trying.
I masturbate to porn maybe 5-6 times a week but idk if that has something to do with it. I do not think it is comfotability either as I believe we have very good chemistry with eachother and she is very helpful, patient and understanding with me everytime this happens.
It has gotten to the point where it is really embarassing and is affecting my confidence and self esteem. Any help would be tremendously appreciated. Thank you.
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can i recommend you see a doctor about this? are you on any medications that may cause this as a side effect?
Porn could be desensitizing you, are you doing drugs or alcohol that could be a factor? Possibly just vary nervous?
Are you attracted to her?
You have a porn addiction issue, friend. 4-6 times a week is definitely too much. Go off the porn for a few days and watch the problem disappear for a few days. Permanently, you won’t have that problem anymore.