Why did my FWB ghost me?

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So I have this fuck buddy I met a year ago at the bar. When I first met him, he was a player, and his friends liked to have like big parties and sleep with different girls every week. After the first time I slept with him, he started calling me pet names like love and baby. After the second time I slept with him when he was drunk, he told me he thought I was super beautiful and that he never wanted me to leave, and that he was only into me.

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The second time I hung out with him during sex. He told me he loved me multiple times while drunk the second time I hung out with him. He was with a different girl, and then he got drunk and begged me to hang out. He called me probably six times, and I went to see him, and that’s when he said he loved me many times. When he was saying that type of stuff, I would laugh, or like a girl, or when he was saying he loved me. I was looking away from him and liked not saying anything.

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On the third time we hung out, his door broke, and he had to get one of his friends to let us out because it wouldn’t open from our side. When his friend came in, I hid away and didn’t say hi, and he seemed upset. The first time I hung out with him too. He wanted me to introduce him to my roommates, but I hid away from them. The fourth time I saw him, he told me that I was not allowed to meet his friends, and then I was never going to meet his friends, and I didn’t say much of that, and he reminded me how I was a weirdo for hiding away, and I just stayed quiet.

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I often ask him to cum quickly cause I get nervous during sex. One time during sex, he told me it upset him that I asked him to cum soon because it made him think I didn’t like him very much. Well, the fourth time everything out with him. I asked him to cum quickly, and he did, and then cause I got nervous again, I said oh, I didn’t want that, and he got super upset and mad at me. I massaged his back until he fell asleep, and then he tried to cuddle with me, but I said I needed to go.

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We hadn’t seen each other for probably seven months, and then he texted me to hang out around Halloween. We had a fun time together, and after a couple of hours of hanging out while we lay in bed together, kissing and cuddling, he whispered that he loved me. one time he tried to play with my breasts but I yelled at him to stop and pushed his had away. Later in the night, I asked him to cum quickly again because I was feeling sore, and he got super upset and didn’t say bye to me when I left.

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I texted him nudes on Christmas, but he just ignored me. We saw each other again another time in February when he texted me. During this time, I bit him hard to the point that he bled. I felt terrible, but I was still sad about missing my ex, and after we had sex, I didn’t cuddle with him at all. He tried to cuddle with me at night, and I pushed him away in the morning around 5 AM, and we had sex, and then I told him I had to leave right after he said bye and then turned away from me. Now he hasn’t texted me in weeks and is now dating a new girl. I don’t understand why he would tell me he left me no date someone else why did my friends with benefits say that he love me and I was dating someone else?

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Tl; Dr: Guy I was hooking up with told me he loved me a couple of times but ghosted me for another girl