I want to make it clear to them that physical intimacy, including sex, is a very important part of a relationship (for me) and I don’t really want to sound like it is the *only* thing I want from them because that is not true at all.

How would you guys bring up this topic to your new partner in a way which should not make them feel like it’s the only thing which we are looking for in a relationship?

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  1. I am much like you and have a high sex drive. I was open with my partner from Day 1 that it’s an important part of a relationship to me. It’s not the focus and never should be, but it’s certainly an important aspect. Don’t be afraid to make it clear that it’s not the only thing but it’s a valid thing to you! If you have that conversation early and the sex wanes, it allows you to address it immediately before resentment ever sets in.

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