Advice for a 20 yo virgin

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1. Wear protection and if she’s more experienced let her guide you.

2. Here’s my tips:

   1. If you want to last longer masturbate before you go see her. Clear the chamber as they say. You’re a 20 year-old man and a virgin so you’ll rebound quick and it will help you not ejaculate as quick during sex. That being said….
   2. Don’t freak out if you cum fast. You’ve had oral so you’re not completely inexperienced but trust me, having a woman in full heat going to town on your penis is a lot the first time. You probably won’t last long and that’s okay. Don’t beat yourself up about it and enjoy losing your V card.
   3. Do your best to make her orgasm, but it’s okay to have her guide you and ask what she likes and how to please her. You’re new at this and its the first time with a new person, every woman is different and every woman has different things she likes. My first time I couldn’t make the woman I was with cum by myself so she used her vibrator and I laid next to her rubbing and kissing on her. Put the effort in to show you care about her pleasure and she’ll appreciate it. You’re not going to be Sir Stud Fuck McMultiple Orgasms your first time, she knows this, so don’t put too much pressure on yourself.
   4. Don’t be afraid to extend the foreplay, I can tell you when I first started having sex regularly and figuring out what women liked and didn’t I was really surprised how much of a difference extending foreplay can make. I’ll draw it out with my fiancée for so long she’s basically a rainforest down there by the time we get started.

   In short: Don’t put pressure on yourself, put an honest effort in to please her, let her show you how to please her (you’re a man now, gotta start learning your way around a pussy lol), and don’t forget the foreplay. Have fun bro, this is a moment you are never going to forget.

3. do it slowly if ur gonna get laid. dont rush. take your time. . make her your priority in bed. goodluck bro