Bj tips for those who struggle to cum during bjs?

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1. He cums easily from other stuff?

   You could try adding anal play

   Otherwise just make sure u ask him what part of the penis for him actually feels best to stimulate and how he wants it

2. It’s not you, it’s him. He needs to relax and not focus on finishing, just enjoying the moment. I’ve had several partners that it took months to get comfortable enough to finish with various acts, including oral, different penetrative positions, etc.

   Performance anxiety, including being able to finish a certain way, is a huge hurdle to overcome for everybody. It’ll happen one day, both of you just be patient.

3. Enthusiasm is half the battle, but I think you have that down. Keep your mouth wet, play with any part of him that he likes, and don’t be afraid to be creative. All guys are different. That being said, just like girls, if he seems like he is close and wants to finish, don’t change what you’re doing. The other thing that tends to work is to get your rhythm somewhere close to the timing of the shots when he would cum, meaning if he cum shots about 1 second between shots, let that be your rhythm. If it’s a longer or shorter interval for your guy, adjust accordingly. Don’t know why this works, but it does.

4. He could just be one of those guys who doesn’t cum from oral. I am the same way. Masturbation and penetration works, but oral for some reason cannot get me there. To me, oral just seems to have less friction than the other two. About 10% of guys have this “issue”. I don’t think it’s from lack of trying based on your other responses.

5. He may masturbate to much or too often ?

6. I never have been able to finish during a bj I usually stroke till I’m getting close and then go with the bj