Men if reddit: what was the reasoning you kept a FWBs a long time like years?

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1. Because they are lovely women

2. 9 years FWB here.

   Throughout high school we just kept going at it. We were in our own relationships but that didn’t stop us tbh. Being intimate with her for that long, she knew my body more than any other girl did. And vice versa. We also just hung out like half the time we met up, so she knew what I like intimately/romantically more than just outside of sex. She knew how I liked to be cuddled and touch.

   As for being easy, it was very easy to be with her when I was with her. But everything between us was just romance and intimacy. For some reason, I couldn’t have a normal conversation with her for an extended amount of time without any romantic gestures. And I was very comfortable with her, super comfortable. She was extra attractive with a smoking body that gets me hard just thinking about it.

   Only reason I never pursued a relationship with her is because she cheated on all her relationships. She may have cheated on them with me, but she still cheated. We talked about dating in college but it was never pursued and we just continued to date others. I just don’t feel like I could fully commit to her because I don’t think I’d fully trust her.

3. Easy, exciting or the sex was great. However, obviously a huge red flag somewhere that’s why we never became more.

4. Because its an easy nut without commitment.

   Idk why women want FWBs tho. Its the worst kind of relationship you could foster for you.

5. He had a nice cock

6. Great sex, easy to talk to, fun to go out to eat a couple times a month with someone