My husband stupidly got a DUI hasn’t drank in over a year now but he never complied with going to AA and he effed up procrastinated whatever on his diversion program to the point they sent the fee back! He was supposed to get his license back over a year ago he promised to not treat this like he treats everything else basically refusing to do anything till a mole hill is a mountain and it is affecting everyone else around him and he has done exactly that and I’m like WTF! I want to do something to not get back per se but like make him understand how fucking angry I truly am something that will make him never want to behave like this again. But what aside from kicking him in the nuts but violence won’t solve anything. I should have stuck to my guns when he got the DUI initially and not let him back in thus house until he had it handled bit I caved because he didn’t have a job and covid and I’m so angry at myself for caving and angry at him for this!