For starters relationship was very toxic not good . There were a lot of good times but I feel like that mostly comes down to our sexual chemistry. He accused me of cheating and judges me for just being on a dating app. Now that I’ve been talking to him he gets mad and annoyed at small things. It’s so annoying seriously I can’t even. But idk after all the bad times I love the good times besides sex we have good conversations too. I love him a lot we’ve been talking for over a year now and we broke up 6 months ago. I’m not sure if I should give this another chance as he did pretend to be a random guy just to see if I sext random people even though we weren’t together. He does a lot of stuff. Idk if I should even do it even though I’ve been wanting that connection from and with him for months after our breakup .
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absolutely don’t
Toxic relationships are so intriguing. I hate that I love them.
Of course you shouldn’t. You already know it’s toxic, and he’s controlling and a liar. Hell no.
The only reason is if
You can be honest
1. What has changed that it won’t be toxic… like really. Did they do therapy, a new career, a near death experience, religious awakening…it sounds like he is still controlling and misbehaving.
2. Would you feel safe and secure.
Usually the answer is no it’s not a good idea.
Keep in mind that because you can be talking nicely now… if you get close it can be easy to fall into the old pattern.
You should read up on dating a narcissist. You might find it helpful
You literally told me it was toxic. Why are you even considering this? This baffles me.