I have been dating a women for about two months now. She is looking for a more serious relationship and eventually she will want kids. I thought that would be into the possibility but I am not ready for that yet. I have been divorced for about a year now and have two teen kids if my own. I know the women likes me a lot and has alot of strong feeling for me. I don’t want to be a jerk or hurt her feeling (not more then I have to due to the split) but I think a prolonged relationship will hurt her more in the end.
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Honesty is best.
I think a lot of times people like to break the news vaguely which can give someone who is attached false hope (i.e., I’m really busy right now)
Tell her that you are not interested in pursuing the relationship further.