So I had a break-up about a few months ago, but I’m ready to let bygones be bygones and get back out there. Problem is, I have absolutely no idea where to look.
The things that went wrong with me and her were largely trivial yet important stuff such as style, piercings/tattoos, and some other extremely tiny things (such as debating over keeping a Bible in our future house.) However, one major thing that ultimately caused our split was our life goals. She ultimately wanted to live an invisible life, having as little impact on those around her as she could, while I dream of giving my all to everyone who’s path I may cross.
My question is, how do I find girls I know I’ll have that major interest in common with?
I’m mainly looking for those that are reserved, but will talk when approached, who have at least an ambition to learn about anything they can, especially history.
Looks don’t matter to me, nor do other petty things, as if I can learn how to find girls FUNDAMENTALLY like that, I can start filtering through them. Plus, more people means more to learn, right?
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So disagreements about how to handle religion in your relationship isn’t tiny. A lot of couples make this mistake because you can get far in a relationship without addressing things like this. But if the goal is marriage a disagreement like this can cause divorce. Disagreement about religion/culture are one of the top causes of divorce.
Understand the girl you described it’s going to take work to find but it’s doable.