I’ve made out before but never actually gotten eaten or fingered until last week.
When I finger myself, I can feel that my fingers are in there and while it’s not like I can orgasm from fingering myself, it feels good. Like that’s it, just good. Nothing mind blowing or anything, but good enough that every time I masturbate I want to finger myself just to feel it. Another thing that’s puzzled me about fingering myself is that while two fingers feel more full, I find myself having a greater pleasure from just one finger.
When my partner (it was a one-night stand sort of situation) fingered me, I couldn’t really tell whether or not his fingers were inside. While I usually enjoy fingering myself, I just couldn’t feel anything when he was fingering me.
About oral, I’ve heard that being eaten out (as a female with a vulva/vagina) feels incredible. But I don’t think I agree? It feels good as in the wetness and warmth and pressure feels good but it’s not mind blowing either?
I probably felt more pleasure while I was sucking him off and basically making out with his penis than when I was being fingered or eaten out.
So these had led me wondering if maybe I’ve masturbated so much and know my body so much better that I can make myself feel more pleasure than someone else can. And that’s scary. What if I can never feel as good or even better with a partner?
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Well usually we can always pleasure ourselves better than anyone else. Maybe a long time partner gets close but the only thing making it potentially better is the situation that someone else is doing it. But from what I understood it was your first time? Dont judge too fast. Some guys are naturally talented and others are not. Either way, dont let him guess what you like. Communication is key. You already know what you like. So tell him, tell him what to do and what not to do. He cant read your mind.
Funny, you don’t quite admit you’ve ever had an orgasm. Let’s assume you have.
Sexual pleasure isn’t just about the orgasm. Sexual attraction to other humans is a thing. Have you ever heard of a woman who crushed on her vibrator? I’ve never heard of a man having a crush on the folded fabric he uses to jerk off with. He wants to rub his thing against a pretty person with a pulse, nice skin, good figure, warm hole. Wants hugs.
Women are more likely to know the technique for going down on a woman. I realize for most women this is not an option.
There are lots of men who do know how. Those that don’t, offer to teach them.