Are men with skinny necks at a disadvantage dating?

24 comments

1. only if you have to ask reddit!…come on man!…woman are more attracted to your confidence and personality than your pencil neck! If you are worried about it then dress accordingly.

2. You really shouldn’t be at a disadvantage at all, I’ve never known of a woman to comment on a neck?

3. I highly doubt women care as much as you think they do about this, bro

4. I have never noticed a man’s neck one way or the other. 😳

5. Yes look at a good photoshop comparison of a thin and thick neck on the same guy.

6. I wouldn’t say it’s an obvious disadvantage. Anything that is off from the ordinary is going to be off putting by some people out there, but certainly not everyone or even the majority of people.

7. unless your neck is a lollipop stick, I don’t think anyone is going to notice how thick it is. Although they would notice if you had no neck at all.

8. Do some deadlifts.

9. Yes they are Mr. Mackey.

10. Never not once have I made an attractiveness rating of someone based on the thickness of their neck. I feel like as long as you don’t have that big Ed neck you’re good

11. Oh man, these are getting weirder each day. You neck doesn’t matter unless you keep talking about necks with the girl lol

12. You know what they say about guys with big necks…

13. People look at necks?

14. I don’t think so? Personally speaking, I don’t really care if a guy’s neck is skinny or not. I find them quite attractive 🤷‍♀️

15. Not going to lie..as a woman I will admit I prefer a stronger neck on a guy.

    I honestly never realised this until one day it suddenly occurred to me looking at work peoples bio pics (lol) as it’s up to the shoulders & suddenly realised why I preferred some over others.

    That being said, I don’t think it’s a big deal at all and certainly not to most! It’s also a subconscious thing hence taking me such a long time to realise. I don’t think one of my friends has EVER mentioned a guys neck put it that way!

16. Nope, a lack of confidence does though, that’s what I’d work on (/gen)

17. There’s always someone out there who will appreciate whatever you’ve got going on.

    Me, I’m into slender necks. Not *everyone* will be but I’m sure I’m not the only one.

18. You’re literally the first person I have ever heard have this worry.

    Unless you look like your head’s gonna fall over you’re probably fine bro

19. low confidence is a disadvantage in general

20. My bf has a skinny neck (based on what he always tells me), I still love sniffing and biting his neck tho

21. I myself am insecure about my neck width but if I know women if they really love you that’s not going to change things if she has a problem with your neck she’s not the one

22. This just shows me that we’re all in our heads way too much

23. Yes. If we’re walking down the street and someone decides to try and rob me for my Philly cheesesteak how are you going to protect me? One karate chop to the neck and it’s over for you.

24. Are the women you’re interested in vampires or something?