First of all sorry if this is not written in a good order or if I make any mistakes, english is not my first language and it’s the first time I write something like this.
I have had sex with my bf (m21) a few times, but its not often, because we are in a ldr relationship. We are each others first, so we both don’t have any experience but are willing to try new things. He has a higher sex drive than me, my sexdrive is almost completely nonexistent, I rarely masturbate and if I do I can’t orgasm. I have tried to masturbate with toys like a clit sucker and a dildo, but that didn’t really do anything for me.
We do have foreplay and I get wet, but I can’t feel much when we have sex and I never had an orgasm. I don’t think it’s because of his size as he is atleast average in length and girth. I like seeing him enjoy it when he has sex with me and would really like to be able to enjoy it as well.
I dont know if it’s a mental or a physical issue, but I’m not diagnosed with anything and don’t take any medication aside from birth control. I don’t really know what I could try but I’m open to try almost everything, If you have any suggestions.
Thanks a lot in advance.