This one is really is for me. I get turned off extremely easily. Here’s a few reasons here for me that make me not want to talk to a guy anymore.

-asking me for money when we’re still getting to know each other. If he’s asking for money now, he’s just going to gradually start asking her for more money. I don’t care if he asks only one time. I’ve dated a couple of bums and this is generally how it starts out

-Being inconsistent. You can’t text me “good morning beautiful” every single day, make me feel special and then drop off the face of earth for days. If he needs time for himself, he should respect you enough to say this to you

-Asking me out on a date/hang out, and cancelling last minute. This one is pretty self explanatory. This guy has no respect for me or my time. If he can’t even find the time of day to arrange a time to meet up with me, I understand! But I’m not going to stand around for this so if he can’t find time for me then that means he’s never going to make time for me

-being possessive and overly clingy. I’m my own person. I am a woman, not an object. You do not own me and stop texting and calling me so much because I will get back with you when I can

-being desperate. I had this one guy I was seeing. We were almost together for a year. Not going to go into details about what happened but I broke up with him. He started being the crazy ex. Calling and texting from private numbers, crying, popping up at my residence and finding alternatives to contact me after I’ve made it very clear that I am done being involved. It makes a man look very pathetic to act like this & no this is not going to make me change my mind! If he can’t handle a break up, he needs to get it together

2 comments
  1. So you want a guy to call/ text every day to shower you in compliments… yet if he contacts you every day he is needy/insecure/ over possessive…?

    Tighten up please

  2. Wanting to know details of your sexual history

    Telling you that you need to gain weight

    Texting you at work when he knows you’re busy

    Saying rude comments about your friends whom he doesn’t even know

    Making offensive jokes

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