We broke up almost 2 weeks ago. Ever since we have been texting a lot (sometimes good, sometimes bad). We have seen each other a couple of times (twice to hook up, once to go on a date, and yesterday he came over and we watched a movie, had sex, and cuddled). We broke up because he had some issues with me & I have been putting in the work to be better (which he acknowledges that he notices and appreciates). But now, as we’re trying to work this all out- he is very very distant, lacking miserably in communication, and acting like my needs/concerns are no longer important (since IM the one who’s supposed to be working on fixing this). I have put forth ALL of my effort in fixing this. I asked him for a little bit more affection/reassurance bc as of right now, I do not feel secure. To be clear: he gives me little to none. His response was literally “take what you get” and he followed that up with a little bit about “I don’t like texting blah blah blah” . I’m confused. I am giving everything I can to is getting to a healthier place and it’s like he couldn’t care less if we do or don’t. It hurts .
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So break up for good. It’s not working out.