I (33F) went on a date with a guy (33M) with whom the chemistry was off the charts. Everything from our sense of humour to how attractive we found each other’s bodies was through the roof.
But we had the what we’re lookin for conversation and I want someone to start a family with and he doesn’t. Says he wants to try a relationship but can’t because of work. He’s incredibly attracted to me but won’t act on it because he thinks I’m “wife material” and he cares for me.
I’m heartbroken that I have to give up this connection. Is there no other solution to this? It felt so special and rare.
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If you want kids and he doesn’t you are incompatible. As sad as it is, you need to move on and respect your desires.
I knew a guy who used that line. In his case it meant that girl is awesome and I would totally marry her, but I want to do a whole bunch of freaky perverted sex stuff before I get married and I don’t want the mother of my kids to have done that stuff, but I’m definitely not going to miss out on doing it before I settle down.
If he wanted to get would. He likes you so much but won’t even do a relationship. Bs.
He’s trying to manipulate you in to joining his harem.
Ask him how many women has he delt with in the last 3 months.
It’s initial infatuation. At some point the amazing chemistry is gonna wear off and the lack of compatibility of values is gonna make this situation 100x more painful and difficult. Bite the bullet now and let him go. You’ll save yourself a lot of pain an heartache.