Does anyone else rejoin and then remove apps every 3 months? I am trying to put myself out there, but slowly lose faith in finding someone with basic social skills.

3 comments

  1. Bit confused but you last sentence. Are you losing faith you’ll meet someone that they themselves have basic social skills or that you yourself have basic social skills and you don’t think you’ll find someone?

  2. Convincing someone to invest time into you is a difficult thing. Especially when the standards have been set so low for the apps. The best way to optimize your efforts is to setup a transactional interaction. Be clear what they get(something they want) in exchange for what you want(like a solid conversation). For example most guys want pictures and to feel like they earned something. You could say something like for every hour of engaged chatting we do I will remove a piece of clothing and send you a picture. Of course this makes the assumption that you are fine sending pictures… it technically can be anything as long as it peaks their interest to invest their time into you.

  3. Yep. Feel like I could have written this myself. I get the apps, quickly realise how much I don’t like them/struggle to connect with anyone. Delete, get bored, think getting the apps is a good idea, try again and repeat. I’m also losing faith honestly. 4 years on them and nothing but a couple of failed situationships due to their lack of commitment. It’s hard out here

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