Hi 40 F here. I’ve never experienced the whole G spot orgasm. I have had clitoral ones, but never a “g” spot one. Can anyone explain how to achieve this,or tell me why I’ve never had one? Thank you!

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  2. My wife’s G spot is super sensitive. It sets her off with the slightest stimulation. Because of that there is no trick or special technique required for her.

    Maybe it’s just the way the body is wired?

  3. I’ve found that if I incorporate clit stimulation at the same time as vaginal stimulation I can get myself close and then stop but continue with the gspot stimulation until I cum. It’s sort of like I’m training myself to cum vaginally because I’m trying to use less and less clitoral stimulation to help get to the climax. I hope this makes sense and can maybe help!

  4. Prone bone and have him start from a high angle relative to your butt. You will feel the spot. After that it’s just consistency and how hard / long it takes to climax

  5. It’s normal to never experience this and most women don’t. There isn’t a scientific basis behind the g spot.

  6. You might never have one. I’ve known girls who cum only from G spot stim and never clit stim, and vice versa.

    If you want to see if you can, have a partner insert a finger and make a motion like they are telling someone to come here.

  7. It took my awhile to find that spot . I even squirt now !! I am 59 yrs too.. maybe watch a video to help you

  8. Personally, I’ve only ever been able to orgasm from clit stimulation. I got a toy that is similar to a rabbit. It vibrates the clit while the dildo part rotates a little. The only way I’m able to get off from my G Spot is if my clit is getting attention as well. It’s a whole different kind of orgasm, much more intense. I would recommend you use either your finger(s) or a dildo first that way you can position/use the motion to stimulate the G Spot like the “come here” motion while also either rubbing or using a vibrator on your clit. Make sure to have both going at the same time.

  9. Ask your partner to locate it first as sometimes it’s off to one side. Then use a Gvibe on it (the Rabbit is awesome!). Or get your partner to use their fingers. If it doesn’t get you an orgasm, at least you’ve had fun trying!

  10. The clit and g spot are part of the same structure of stimulation. If you think of it as a whole sexual organ with different parts of sensitivity, perhaps it might help you to understand that there is nothing ‘wrong’ with you.

    It could be habit and acclimatisation that leads a lot of women to be able to come from clit stimulation alone. Perhaps with concerted practice you can train yourself to glean pleasure from your g spot alone, but ultimately it the same cascade of processes that triggers an orgasm. But even if it isn’t, it is still different routes to get to the same destination.

    Don’t beat yourself up about it.

  12. Fun fact – G spot is actually just the clit on the backside. Most women are much more sensitive on the front, which is what everyone knows as the clit.
    I’ve never had a G spot orgasm either but I do find hitting the G spot and stroking it makes it muchhh more likely I’ll squirt.

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