So I broke up with my ex a month ago, he found a new girlfriend in a week, presumably to fill the hole, I don’t think he cheated.
The thing is I love this man. I broke up with him cause I had horrible mental health issues and things to work on with myself so I felt like I didn’t deserve him and was torturing him with my behavior constantly. But I failed at communicating all that.
So I need to get my medications right and heal myself, become a better person for him. He once said he has never loved a person more than he loves me, so do you think I ever stand a chance with him in the future if he’s single?
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Yes no maybe. Outside of getting medication, have you taken steps to better your ability to communicate?
What was the reason you have for breaking up with hi
Look, he was invested in you emotionally and was ignoring some serious relationship deficits and then you dumped him.
Now, he has a new girlfriend. This new relationship is probably fun and easy. It probably isn’t wrought with complications and he probably isn’t being tortured by his girlfriend.
Not gonna lie, now that he has some distance from your relationship and experienced something more healthy, he isn’t likely to be interested in signing up for more mistreatment from you.