Men, what are the signs that you show when you fall in love with your coworker?

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1. Always talking to each other. Being inseparable.

2. Sounds like you’re the one that is catching feelings.

3. I don’t date coworkers. Neither should you.

4. Dont

5. Analyze the time spent thinking about the coworker and compare it to the time spent focusing on your current relationship.

   Love is not anything behavioural or emotional, btw. Just a description of what you fantasize to actually be acceptance.

   Also, if you fantasize about potential lewd behaviour that includes the coworker. Definitely love.

   Does the thought of her doing whatever you are thinking about give you a big hammer? That’s love. Hopefully, she’s not catholic. That would be the end of the love story for me. Also having herpes.

6. The term “fall in love” was invented to help people avoid responsibility for their actions.

7. Get them fired. That way work doesn’t become awkward after I ask her out.

8. I don’t use the word “love” quite so freely. I carefully try to avoid giving any sign of crushing on a coworker, because it’s considered wrong and inappropriate.

   These days, women have to take initiative, because it’s considered insulting or even criminal for a man to make the first move

9. I have no clue. I consider my co-workers off-limits by default.

10. Besides all the things you already mentioned (especially diverting attention to you in a group): seeking her out when not really necessary (like ‘just checking up’ if she ‘needs anything done’), little remarks here and there (small compliments; gotta be careful these days with #metoo, though), and watch for how he looks at you. Is he always smiling in a content or appreciative manner? Does he let his gaze rest on you just a second or two longer than what would be ‘natural’?

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