She cums first: How to make her orgasm
I initially posted this in seduction, but it was removed due to being “off topic” so I was told to post here.
I was really insecure as a young adult so I wanted to be able to give my girlfriend intense orgasms.
I figured If I was satisfying her sexually she’d never leave.
That was not the case.
But I did learn how to make a woman orgasm.
**How to orgasm-**
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Always preheat the oven before putting something in it.
Y’all stop trying to rush it.
Take the scenic route.
Visit the ears, visit the neck, the wrists, the stomach…
By the time you get south the oven will be THROUGHLY preheated.
Now let’s talk about the psyche.
Women know men have fragile egos.
So when you sleep with them they feel pressured to act like they have toe curling orgasms.
Otherwise they think you’ll be insulted.
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When things are beginning to spice up after meeting someone I’d usually say,
“Hey, relax. Stop *trying* to orgasm, if it happens it happens, if not we can always try again later ;)”
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They would usually end up orgasming shortly after.
Because they’re no longer tense.
It’s like trying to force yourself to sleep, it’s once you relax that you dose off.
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**How to determine her style-**
Every woman I’ve dated had a different style I needed to learn.
First I try my goto’s
* The wet finger around the clit
* The come hither motion
* Edging then going inside
If none of those worked, I’d straight up ask her what’s worked in the past.
Then do it.
I should add it usually took me 3-5x times before I found what worked well for both of us, don’t expect to succeed the first time, be confident it’ll come eventually.
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Masculine sexual energy is like fire, and feminine sexual energy is like water. Fire needs to be contained for it to be able to heat up the water. But it will also burn out easily.
But after the water has brought to boil, it will keep warm for a long time 🙂
> When things are beginning to spice up after meeting someone I’d usually say,
“Hey, relax. Stop *trying* to orgasm, if it happens it happens, if not we can always try again later ;)”
That is the best advice I’ve seen on here recently.
> They would usually end up orgasming shortly after. Because they’re no longer tense.
Makes sense.
I love how men’s sexual advice is just, hey what if you didn’t just ram it in? Ever think of that buddy?
Don’t get me wrong, great post. It’s just that the bar is on the fucking floor and whew. I am salty about it.
>Women know men have fragile egos.
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>So when you sleep with them they feel pressured to act like they have toe curling orgasms.
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>Otherwise they think you’ll be insulted.
Don’t assume every woman is like this.
I see no point in faking my pleasure in order to reassure my partner, if I’m not enjoying myself I’ll tell them what to try, and if my orgasm isn’t the most powerful I won’t embellish it for their sake.
I don’t expect you to blow my mind if you’ve never touched me before, I’d rather have a curious person willing to communicate and try instead of faking it to make them feel better about themselves. It wouldn’t be fun for me nor useful to them if I acted that way. (Edit: format)
You gotta Saveur this moment as well as use it later in the argument. Oh, it will come the time when you be mocked of Cumming faster!
How to make her orgasm: Actually try for once?
This is so wholesome.
What a BS.
A women into you is so hot she just needs dick and pounding and nutting (raw).
She’ll tell you that going down is offending her and that you better man up.
She’ll nearly rape you if you can”t hold her pace.
At orgadm she’ll bring you over the edge when the pussy is clamping hard and the cervix is pulsing your tip.
Sorry – but NO.
You’ve never been with a woman into you.
If you wang to be a pussy pleaser – be sure she’s thinkkng about the things i just told xou.