Kind of a silly question but I’ve been talking to this guy from Bumble for about 3 weeks. He said he was moving here if everything went well with his job. So it’s literally the day before I’m supposed to meet up with him (we were also talking about hooking up), and yesterday he told me everything was going well with his job and he’s moving here…now, he’s saying everything isn’t working out with his job and he’s going to have to leave the state and his job is “doing him dirty”. Maybe I’m looking into it too much but it’s kind of funny (not really) how he’s starting to talk to me less and less as the day we’re supposed to meet comes up…am I being ghosted already??
TL;DR: it’s the day before I planned to meet this guy and I think he’s going to ghost me.
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Whether you get ghosted or not this is probably done. I’d stop investing time into this it’s clear he isn’t moving there. I don’t understand his through process of matching with people if his move wasn’t a done deal. Personally I think 3 weeks is way too long to talk to someone without atleast one date.
Sorry babe but none of us are going to be able to predict whatever this man is going to do. Just follow your intuition.