Hey guys, I’m a little inexperienced when it comes to sex. I had one situationship and it ended last summer so it’s been a while. Tinder date came up to my apartment, we had sex for probably 15-20 mins and maybe I came a little? it didn’t feel like I climaxed really. Last time this happened I assumed it was because of masturbating so I didn’t masturbate for two days prior. still didn’t work.
I’m not sure if we’ll meet again but either way I want to solve this problem. Friends tell me I overthink so it could be performance anxiety. I was definitely attracted to her but there’s pressure of satisfying her. Anyway would like some advice.
Update: she rejected me
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This used to happen to me in the past, first few partners I couldn’t finish then I discovered what position will get me there. Try and experiment to get a feel of what position works for you to make you finish
Oh absolutely, it’s anxieties. The more comfortable you get, the better chance you are going to be able to finish.
Easier said than done, I know.