I(20m) and my(19)partner inexperienced in doing sexual stuffs as it is our first time in engaging in sexual activities. We have decided to not engage in sex but can you all give me advice on how to make this enjoyable for her, or some techniques that would blow her mind with just my fingers, or during oral. This would be very much appreciated
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Finger her with 1 finger
Pull her nipples with 1 finger
Bite her neck
The old finger and tongue game! gotta love it. OK so you have fingers and you have a tongue. That is all you need to make her orgasm! One foreplay is VERY important you have to make sure she is super wet, horny and ready to go. That can take up to 15 to 30 minutes so google some foreplay tricks and study up. The main thing to get a girl off / give her tons of pleasure is her clit. Which if you don’t know where that is, look it up. Also the clit is shaped like a wishbone. So you have the main part of the clit on the very top. If she has an extra thick or long hood over it, you might have to pull it back a little to get to her clit. So again clit is shaped like a wishbone. The top is the most senistive. Do not go straight for it!! it can cause her pain if you do it too hard and too fast. Work up to it. This is going to get detailed so nsfw! Start by kissing the inside of both of her thighs and all around her vuvla. FUN FACT that is what the whole pussy is called, the vagina is just the hole in the middle.
So once you have done that, it will build up that sexual tenison between both of you. Start to run your fingers along the inside of her vuvla making a upside down U shape going from one side to the other. Remember don’t touch the top of her clit yet! You can also lick your way around on both sides of the clit too if you don’t want to use your fingers. If she is super tight and if she is a virgin and her hymen is intact, you’re going to have to break it, unless she has masterbated before and broke it her self. There will be some blood when you break the hymen, do not freak out! that is normal. You at most will probably get one finger in, depending on if she has materbated before and losen up the vagina walls before. So licking and sucking are all amazing things to do! Now once she is starting to move her body around and LISTEN to her, watch her body movements it will tell you if she is liking it and not liking it. Softly and VERY gently put pressure on her clit with your tongue. This might be a shock to her so she might act like it hurts but its just senistive. So slowly and gently start to lick her clit in a like circle motion with your tongue. If you can get a finger inside her do that as well. You can also try sucking on her clit but if that is too much for her you don’t want to overstimulate her. You can also swap back and forth between your finger and your tongue inside of her. Don’t forget to always give her clit stimulation! It is a prime key to make her orgasm. You can also play with her nipps with your other hand to give her 3 places of stimulation.
That is really the skinny of it. Change up your sucking and licking speed, play with hard or softer pressure on her clit. If she is OK with one finger you can try two but just go SLOW!! it can hurt her. Just have fun with it man! Also you can take your finger and put pressure on her butthole why you are eatting her out and that will trigger another stimulation so you can swap between nipple stim and butthole stim why you are going down on her. I have probably told you in way too much detail about this but there ya go!