Hi! I’m 24f and my partner 33m has a 10 year old daughter and I just need general advice! Anything you’ve got from timelines, how to reassure them you’re not jealous of the time they give their kids, how much is too much? How to reassure yourself they’re not still interested in their ex, etc.

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  1. May I ask why you’re dating a 33 yr old? Especially one with a kid. Not judging but you’ll find that your life will be rushing though. I always tell people to date at the same pace they grow.

    If these feelings are how you’re currently feeling then it’s already happening. For his ex, well you’ll have to figure out why they didn’t work out but she’s always gonna be in his life anyways so you gotta decide if you’ll be able to handle that. And his kid will always come first.

    Do you wanna be with someone who you get to experience all these life experiences with for the first time, or are you okay with settling for priority 2. If the latter is what you’re okay with, then the most important way to navigate this relationship and reduce your doubts is communication. Don’t be scared to ever communicate with him. If you need Assurance, want more of time etc, you communicate. Not communicating with bring so much resentment. Goodluck!

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