I’m a man 23-year-old. I’m 6 feet tall and have a decent build, but I don’t have any girlfriends or even close friends due to my poor social skills and a need to talk in a serious manner all the time, which makes people think that I’m a logical person. These days, this has made me very upset, and I’m not sure what to do.
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Work on your social skills. What I found helped me the most was forcing myself to engage with people more one on one. Maybe that is getting lunch with a classmate or co-worker. Situations where its just me and another person, its not a group situation where I can sort of blind the background.
People mistake you for logical? Is that code for autistic…
Someone has to enjoy interacting with you for it to progress. It’s just going to take practice and effort. There’s no cheat code.
So are you a logical person?