Is it a gay, as a woman, to get turned on watching a video of another woman masturbating?

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2. If you want a label, it’s possible and as you stated, there are many variations.

   Personally, I would do your own thing and go where your desire takes you. 🙂

3. Yes

4. It might be a smidge gay. But, so what? If you’re enjoying it, just roll with it.

5. A sexologist demonstrated in her lab that both straight and gay women get sexually aroused by not only any human gender pairing, but also at pics of monkeys mating, whereas gay men stay limp at pics of human pairs without a man, and straight men stay limp at pics of human pairs without a woman. The sexologist reasoned that women are sexually aroused by seeing sexual arousal. There’s an entire chapter about this research in the book, What do women want?, by Daniel Bergner.

6. Only you would know that. Watching porn is weird cause everyone experiences it differently, it could be the case that by watching women experience pleasure you envision yourself experiencing the same pleasure and that could be a turn on.
   Or you could just be a little bi, know one here could tell you about your specific experience.

7. It’s called being sexual. And nothing is wrong with that and doesn’t need to be labeled. It’s just called pleasure and you have all the right to be sexually aroused with whatever floats your boat. So, go ahead and enjoy freely!

8. You could be sexually attracted women on a visual but not physical level and not romantically attracted to them at all, thats a thing.

9. Heck no just plain sexy

10. Wait so do straight women not watch women masturbation videos

11. I have been through this myself, starting off with similar videos of solo women masturbation which later led me to want to experiment with women in real life. It doesn’t necessary mean you might be gay or bi, but it could definitely be an indicator. Do what makes you comfortable and happy.

12. > I get turned on a lot by their moans, watching contractions, their cum

    Short of being exclusively gay, that’s about as gay as it gets tbh

13. Does it really matter if it’s gay or not? Just enjoy yourself in your fantasies. Don’t feel guilty for being turned on by whatever you’re turn on by. My homie married his best friend a few years ago, and she had been gay up until they both became friends and then fell in love.

    You get to decide what you are. If it’s gay or not gay is up to you to decide, and it doesn’t really matter anyway. I mean unless you’re in a country that kills people for being turned on by whatever arbitrary thing they deem abomination. If your life is at risk, proceed with caution.

14. Everybody has their quirks and cravings, there’s nothing wrong with that.

15. For me it’s kind of an empathy thing. “OK, she’s enjoying herself, I’m sure I’d be enjoying myself just as much in that situation”. But instead of just limiting it to rational bit it’s also emotional sharing. If that makes sense.

16. To me, I identify as bi bc Im sexually attracted to women, I mean theres more but ya

17. No.
    But you might be bisexual or it’s watching the arousal that gets you aroused. Or you identify with the woman. That’s not gay.

18. Not necessarily. I mostly watch lesbian porn or women masturbating, and I don’t identify as lesbian. I’ve only been in relationships with men and I’ve never been romantically attracted to women. I think women are beautiful and all that, but I think it’s more the fact that it’s more realistic in terms of actually pleasuring a woman and often more sensual than straight porn.

    Just do a quick google search and you’ll find lots of articles on straight women loving lesbian porn. This is completely normal.

19. No

20. If you live in a binary universe then yes it is. But you know, it’s not that simple and these labels are invented by human beings, they are made up. Go and enjoy yourself and your body.