I don’t get hard for 1-2 mins before having sex or getting a blowjob. she keeps kissing me, my body, licking my body, sucking my cock, but it takes a bit for me to get a full erection, maybe 1-2 minutes. Is this normal or is this like some sort of ED?

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  2. Pretty standard, definitely not ED in any way unless that 1 – 2 minutes becomes 10 – 20 lol

  3. That is normal but if you think you have a problem with erections, [then in the foreplay](https://tpi02.wordpress.com/2022/09/29/foreplay/) you are worrying about whether you’re going to get an erection. You are touching your partner with your mind on your penis; thinking ‘is it hard’, ‘when will it be hard’, ‘why isn’t it hard?’

    Worrying about your penis is not sexy and nobody can get aroused under pressure. ‘ED’ becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy.

    I suggest during foreplay to take your mind if not actions completely from your penis and focus on pleasing her like [eating her pussy like a savage](https://tpi02.wordpress.com/2022/09/29/cunnilingus/)

    Remember penetration is usually the end of sex, not the beginning, and your partner does not get aroused just from penile penetration.

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