I need help. Ok so for context: there is this guy who I have recently gotten close to because of mutual friends/family. We have gotten drunk a few times together (& friends) but one time when we were alone, we sat outside and talked for hours. Meanwhile he was caressing my hands. This most recent time, we started out doing the same thing but eventually we started making out. Then we went to sleep and the next day he apologizes and tells me that “it wasn’t me.” Now idk what to do because does he regret kissing me sober, or has he genuinely been wanting to do it and only got the courage bc of the alcohol. ANOTHER point I wanted to make is that he’s told me before that he believes drunk actions are sober thoughts and fully believes people are in control to not fuck up when drunk????? Help. Do I move on?
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People weird things when they’re relaxed and horny.
They do even weirder things when they’re sober, embarrassed and maybe even afraid.
Of course drunk kisses mean something. Anyone who says otherwise is trying to damage control.
There are good reasons and bad reasons to try and pull back on something like that, but it’s not for me to say which.
Dude sounds like a pink flag anyway with this level of indirectly. The only thing for sure is that he isn’t sure.
wtf is going on tonight with single dudes kissing single girls and regretting it, am i in hell?