I’m a 5′ 2″ plus size woman and I find myself in a difficult and literally uncomfortable, painful at times situation.
My boyfriend is 6 ‘ 2″ and average build. My problem is I cannot ride him in the cowgirl position (his favorite). The problem is I have very short thighs and narrow pelvic area/hips. The thighs make it impossible to put receive him comfortably without opening my legs really wide and it hurts sooooooo much! My knees barely making contact with the bed.
Remember what it was like trying to do a split when you were a kid, and how it felt like your hip bones would pop outta socket, dislocate, and/or break? Well, that is exactly what it feels like for me when I try riding. Not just him, it was like this with all my partners in the past too. No matter the build if the guy’s body, short guys like me, skinny, and heavy guys too. Every time it felt like my joints would dislocate.
My boyfriend and I have tried just only a couple different things? My kees up with me crouching. And trio a pillow under his ass to raise him towards me. Nothing’s worked. Is this an issue for anyone else here, or it just me? If you have run into this issue, what did you do? Were you able to find a solution?