I’m in a bit of a peculiar yet bizarre situation. I feel so actually confused right now, but I don’t feel disheartened on pursing her. Its actually a long story on how me and her met and I really have this strong love interest towards ‘her’ and I’m always thinking about her ever since we met online but I don’t want to sound off the alarm just yet that I’m already like hitting on her (even though I already did with some of my cues and actions) or have a romantic interest on her on our possibly first meet. My post is a bit complicated to read but I hope u will bear with me. And I could really need the best advice I can get from u guys on this community.
Besides the title question on this post, I also placed a number (1), (2), etc. beside the question/sentences that I also like to get an answer.
First time possibly meeting her and I want to give her gifts or presents so she can remember or at least think of me. Now, as I said I don’t really want to sound very romantic to her on first meeting because that may sound off the alarms for her. Its hard to explain, but my situation is very delicate. She is actually a local female celeb in our country. And I wanted to keep this post as lowkey as possible but yet profound with advice coming from this community. Now back to the gifts. (1) I wonder how many gifts or what gifts I should give to her on our first meeting? I already have some ideas to give her but I’m also thinking of giving her something precious like some sort of a jewelry like a necklace. (2) Will that be alright? Or will it be too much?
(3)Will it be better to get her something like a friendship ring or something else instead? As I said I will like to keep the pace steady at first, so I believe that I first need to form a friendship towards her and just go from there on the time being. (4-6) But also how can I ask her out? And where? Should I go to her place? Why? Or should I let her go to my place instead but also why?
I will really love to discuss something about her privately because it will be so awkward to say something personal to her while other people might also be listening. Although she told me she can visit me or I can visit her place..She actually began ghosting me for about 2 weeks now when I last told her that we should go and dine out in a restaurant/hotel restaurant together.. maybe she thought about the paparazzi? So also asking her out to eat together is too much as a friendly meetup? On all accounts, I may have to answer YES to my own question about the dinner meet because prior to suggesting that we can go and dine out together, I first asked her on how can I give my presents to her, and she replied that she will either come towards my place or I can come to hers. Of course this got me sooo very excited (we’re in the same city btw). And that was her last reply to me. Even though I’m ghosted still I believe there’s still that chance to her because of that last reply of her to me. And I don’t want to fvck this opportunity up. Any advice, ideas, suggestions, and comments that will help me with my situation are appreciated. 👍