Why would someone go from being friendly to calling me rude/selfish/racist/narcissist/etc, or the other way around? I try to ask them why they think that but most people have said “You just are.” They then continue saying those things to me. One guy said he was going to “Break me.” I genuinely can’t figure out what I do that causes this to be a consistent issue. I don’t go around discriminating against people or using slurs, I try to be polite, I don’t think I’m selfish for doing what’s best for me. It makes me sad that this happens so much and it would be nice if anyone had advice on how to handle stuff like that when ignoring them doesn’t work.
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It’s hard to say without an example…tell us what you said in a situation and maybe we can decipher what went wrong.