We have been together since university. Both of us agreed we take sex of the table until we graduate. Fast forward, we graduated and started working for around 4 years, but every time I tried to initiate, I got turn down, and I will be really disappointed and frustrated, these make the situation worse because she don’t like my attitude every time I got turned down.
I don’t know what else I need to do, I really loves her but at the same time I starts to resent her.
I know ending the relationship is an option but I really want to try to rekindle the passion in our relationship, is there anyway to do so?
Thanks in advance.
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Dude, ending an 8y/o relationship? Don’t even thing it that way until there’s no possibilities left. You guys have survived 8 yrs together. Then obviously she has the support for you and the need of you. I’ll say it this way, if a woman had the need of sex and her bf/husband didn’t feel like having one, then his girl would get mad and prove her point. Eventually she’d make it right for her need.Then why can’t you? you sure can raise your voice like hell.
Does she say why she never wants sex? Is she asexual?
Are you even really in a relationship together at this point? It sounds like you’re more with a friend who wants you around but doesn’t want to have sex with you. You have wasted some of your best years in an extreme sexless relationship, if this girl even remotely wanted to do it it would have happened after you graduated.
She’s not your gf. I’m guessing u pay for her
If there was passion it died 7 years ago
Are you sure you bf/gf ?
Bruh, you don’t have a girlfriend. You have a dependent. Do yourself a favor, cut your losses and get out of this relationshit. If she wanted you, she would have had sex with you by now. She’s either getting dicked down on the side by someone else or multiple someones, or she’s just not interested in sex. Either way, it boils down to you want sex and she doesn’t. This is a fundamental incompatibility, and it’s time to end things.
Sorry guy!
You never sealed the deal, dude. Are you sure she sees you as a romantic partner or a platonic friend that she kisses and hugs sometimes. And when she says I love you, does she mean love for a partner or a long-time friend. Also, look at yourself. How are you trying to engage? Like a kid on Christmas or a man trying to enjoy the moment?