I feel like if I give my number out it’s too impersonal, do you want us women to come over and strike up a conversation?

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  1. I’m trying to come up with a reason that you would think just giving out your number is preferable to coming over and actually talking to a guy.

    Unless you’re in a rush to leave for some reason, why would you want to give your number to someone instead of talking to them right then and there?

    For the question in the title, be explicit. Actually say you’re interested and go ahead and try to plan a date. Don’t just randomly strike up a conversation and then expect the guy to realize you did it because you are hitting on him.

  2. Come up to me and talk to me. I’m fairly shy and awkward so I would love it if the woman approaching me talked alot and touches me flirtingly to break the ice

    Ofcourse this has never happened

  3. Not really picky about it.

    Women get hit on so much that they develop expectations etc. For me? It’s happened like twice in my life.

  4. Come talk to me and, if the conversation goes well, ask me for a way to keep in touch.

  5. Last night I went out and a girl just said “You are Jacked AF” I’m like thanks 😀 she asked for my insta aswell. Nice Compliments and asking for a number or insta is fine!

  6. Anything overt really. Strike up a conversation with me. Smile a lot. Casually touch my arm. Lots of eye contact (I don’t even like eye contact but the rush of being flirted with will make it worth it). Or just give me your digits.

    Pretty much anything other than shyly and secretly hoping I’ll look your way while you’re passing by, because I’m going to assume you’re just going to the bathroom and do not wish to be delayed.

  7. I would like to be hit on through an actual conversation, that conversation could end with but doesn’t have to end with, can I have your phone number, or here is mine, or would you like to go on a date sometime? This is my personal preference, though others might have different expectations to which I would not have cause to argue. I am highly leaning towards this is a personal preference issue, but that preference could be determined through… a conversation.

  8. “Hi, i’m u/sea_shower_7000, you look like you could use a good hard pegging.”

    If you say it jokingly it’s funny,shocking, and attention grabbing. If you say it seriously it makes my bussy water.

  9. Come over and introduce yourself, strike up a conversation, and then off your number if you still want to.

  10. *”how would you like to be “hit on” ?”*

    With repeatedly asked questions like this. /s

  11. Definitely appreciate when women start the conversation, rather than the other way around, as I don’t want to accidentally be seen as too forward. Just introducing yourself is a great way to start.

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