Hi!
I’ve slept with 3 women, and all of them were inexperienced. However I’m interested in this girl who has lots of experience, and I want to be able to please her.
Of course I’ll communicate with her about preferences etc. BUT do you have any tips or tricks in the bedroom I can try out/take with me?
I’m a dom if that’s of any relevance.
Thanks!
4 comments
Communicating with her is the best advice
1. If you’re a dom is she a submissive? Submission can look like a million different things. I would consider exploring that and her limits. If she isn’t a submissive I would explain what you dom style generally looks like and ask her if she is interested in that.
2. Outside of that ask what she enjoys sexually, and simply explore it. Does she enjoy toys? strap on? fingers? oral? Again there are lots of options that might enjoy. It’s impossible to give advice, because while one person might love a hitachi and clitoral stimulation, it might make another person numb and unable to orgasm quickly.
3. I wouldn’t consider yourself inexperienced. Sounds like you know what you like, and are willing to communicate. Be confident in your skills, but open to new experiences. There are plenty of people who have sex with 100s of people, who can’t give pleasure. And there are people who have had a single partner and are amazing at giving pleasure. Give yourself some credit
I really do enjoy 69 a lot, especially with a beginner. It’s perfect for trying and you can feel how she does it, what she likes etc. Also: There is no “pressure” as you’re not directly watching each other.
Go straight
Communicate! Ask what she likes and how she best likes to explore it. If she’s experienced she will be able to let you know what works and what doesn’t. As far as actual tips go, seriously, it’s so cliche but if you eat her out do the spelling the alphabet with your tongue thing if that isn’t already a staple for you. It rules.