I’m 23f and my boyfriend 24 . He’s on the skinnier side and I’m curvy and on the heavier side.
We’ve just started exploring sexually and I wanna do more in bed. I feel like I’ve always only heard good compliments from my previous relationships or sexual encounters but my current boyfriend is extremely fit and has a really high libido. I’m working out and we always have a great time together. But I’m a big girl and I wanna know more positions I can try in bed .
There’s so many positions out there but alot of them are not comfy especially because I have big rack and big bottom. What are some good positions yall have tried w big women or being someone who’s on the bigger side yourself.
Help a girl out pls <3
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What have you tried?
Nothing wrong with just laying on your back and let the man go to town. That’s my favorite position anyway
I’m assuming you’ve already got missionary and girl on top down pat since those are pretty common. Doggy too of course.
Perhaps look into:
Missionary, but with pillows underneath your hips, it will allow easier access.
Spooning with you on your back, or your side. Both are great and you can bend as needed so your breasts aren’t hindering you. Lift a leg and have him put his lower leg between yours for leverage if needed.
Bent over a bed/chair/couch, use your hands to spread yourself open if the booty is in the way.
Edge of the bed sex (pillows or a wedge under your butt so you line up). Try it face down, face up, your legs wrapped around his waist or your ankles on either side of his neck.
Those are some pretty basic variations where size shouldn’t be a huge factor.
Good luck!
I usually use missionary with her legs on my shoulders or doggy cause I like thick girls those work wonders
I am curvy and my bf is skinny but he loves curvy women. I think a lot of it is mental – when I’m anxious I have a hard time getting turned on and staying turned on so I will notice pain or feeling uncomfortable more easily. Then I dry up like the Sahara desert and my hole death grips his dick and it’s horrible (so have lube around lol)
I used to be self conscious but I know he likes how I look in any position and he tells me during sex which is a great reinforcement you can ask your partner to give more of.
Hopefully my descriptions are good enough to visualize but my go tos are face down ass up, doggy, laying flat on my tummy with legs closed and pulling apart my cheeks (🥵my fave tbh), on my back legs open and pushed all the way down, use pillows under your hips or under your belly for optimum penetration, laying sideways and spreading my hole, if I am super turned on I can get on top and ride the shit out of him but it’s easiest if he’s sitting on the couch and I can use the couch to support myself,
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