I (25f) went on a first date with an artistically inclined woman (25f) and we bonded over our love of art. She also seemed very emotionally intelligent, confident in herself and secure in her actions towards me. We spent almost the entire day together. She told me alot of personal things but I didn’t feel like she was over sharing or desperate when we talked about our childhoods together.!
On our second date last night, we had dinner and then she gave me a beautiful ink drawing that she’d done if things I like, with my favorite color palette. I thought this was very sweet and loved the drawing, as I’ve never received art from a date before. We had more deep conversations and I had fun.
However, my roommate 26f thinks this woman might be love bombing me (maybe unintentionally, since I believe there was truly good will in the gift). What do you think?
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It sounds like she just had a good time with you and feels comfortable, so she’s sharing her passions with you. Love bombing can be incredibly toxic and this doesn’t sound like that at all.