i love knowing the effect i have on him

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1. Even as someone more submissive I really don’t think there’s anything hotter than seeing what I can do to someone. kinda proud if he’s a bit embarrassed I made him a cum a little too quick for his liking.

2. Absolutely. We love the slow burn of looking good and going out and letting the lust build to the point where sex becomes absolutely needy.

   Never underestimate the power of your sensuality, OP. Don’t just push his buttons: lean on the panel.

3. My ex would do that to random men, and tell me about watching the bulge in their pants get bigger and how wet she would get just teasing them with little glimpses of a nipple or bush. So, yeah, know the feeling it can give a guy…..

4. That is probably the most positive and best things I’ve read today on hear. I’m really happy for you. Sounds like you found the right person and most likely are going to have a great relationship that most fantasize about. Thanks for posting that and bringing positivity back.

5. I agree. Hearing a guy tell me I’m driving him insane makes me hot too.. not gonna lie. Sometimes I know what I’m doing and actually discreetly trying to drive them insane, but when I’m just being normal and not intentionally trying to, it makes me feel like I’ve got that power you’re talking about and I love it as well.

6. Girl yes! High fives to your man for being able to express that to you. You might have a bit of a praise kink too, which will always make being told what you do to your partner that much hotter. Hold onto him tight if you want to, because not all men are so comfortable expressing to their ladies know how fucking hot they get them.

7. I will intentionally do it, where he thinks I am just not noticing my boob almost out or something. He tried to be sneaky when he looks because he doesn’t wanna embarrass me. Then I just reach over and grab the hard on. Then he smiles and stares harder because he knows it was intentional. When we first started dating, I pulled my shirt down enough for him to see down it. He inconspicuously covered me with a blanket because he didn’t realize it was intentional, and he is a gentleman. Sometimes when he is naked I will randomly flash him just to watch it erect, and he can’t look away

8. Yessss you ain’t alone. Whether I’m the dom or sub in the scenario he’s created just hearing everything he wants to do with me and seeing just how turned on and, for lack of a better word, intoxicated he gets when he says he wants me is just soooooo attractive and boosts my self-esteem soooooo much. It turns me on too just seeing how much he craves me

9. That feeling alone is at least as good as the physical sensations from sex.

10. Guys who feel comfortable getting vulnerable with me and really letting go, especially vocally… as a fairly dominant woman, that shit gives me life. My ultimate goal in bed is to feel confident that I rocked my partner’s world. Don’t make me ask if you enjoyed yourself. Tell me with your reactions 🤤🤤

11. Damn that’s soooo cute pls

12. I’m so envious 🥲

13. You are living the dream..I hope it lasts cause it’s the whole goal to keepin it real sexy. 👊🏻 Keep on with your bad self.

14. If you really want to step that feeling up then start showing yourself off around him a little. Seeing my partner getting weak in the knees and trying to hide it after I bend over/squat with leggings or when i put on/take off socks raising my legs is one of the most satisfying things I do