I get on dating websites and it’s crazy how much effort it takes to simply find someone real that is willing to go on a date with me. The people I do find are like gosh you are such a catch there’s no way. But they’re the only ones that give me a shot. Irl I don’t generally ask acquaintances and friends on a legit date. That sounds like a good way to cause problems doing that at work and stuff. But I get on really well with pretty much all the women up at work. They tend to gravitate towards me, it’s easier for me to make female friends than male friends.
It’s just frustrating that everyone assumes it’s cake to date as me while I silently struggle A LOT. Men dish out their formula that I check all the boxes for and see me as super privileged because of it. No way I have a hard time dating, I don’t even know. And mature women often assume I probably have started a family already when they meet me. I just don’t know what the disconnect is. It makes this area of life so stressful. It actually is kinda weird how difficult it is with how many people are out there. That’s the truth. Really
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They think it’s easy because you look like a catch, but being perceived that way actually makes it harder to to find a good partner.
It’s also weird to assume that being a great catch means you have to have already been caught. Great catches are harder to catch.