The guy I’ve been seeing for the last four months told me today that he got into a relationship. We were never exclusive and were both open about seeing other people so there is no betrayal.
I’m definitely hurt because only recently did I start to realise that I was starting to actually like him and was going to broach the topic of going exclusive.. but today it felt like I got punched in the gut when I saw his messages saying he developed feelings for someone else and that they’re together.
While I understand that it’s the nature of dating there’s definitely a cloud of thought in my head wondering why it couldn’t be me? And how do you get over someone you weren’t in a relationship with?
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Same as you do anyone else. You date other people and focus on yourself. It’s a break up. Like any other. Don’t fool yourself