I’ve resigned to the fact that I [20s M] will never physically enjoy sex (see [previous post](https://www.reddit.com/r/sex/comments/134wtlb/why_cant_i_cum_from_piv/)), but what are some things I can do to enjoy it more mentally/emotionally with my partner?
I love to please my girlfriend [20s F], but I’m finding it harder to want to participate in sex I don’t myself enjoy, as it starts to just feel like work, and I’d rather just cuddle lol. Sex is important to her though, so I want to fix myself somehow.
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Consider seeing a doctor to check for physical or hormonal issues. I know that is a hard convo, but it could be something simple to address. Barring that, a therapist might be able to help if the source is psychological.
along with seeing a doctor for hormonal checks, you can try switching it up with your partner! maybe introduce lube (my bf and i use Coconu’s oil-based lubricant and love it) so there is a new experience and sensation you both can take advantage of.