This is probably a dumb question with a obvious answer but I wanted to ask the reddit community about this anyway. To be clear I am a 22y Male. I haven’t had a lot of girlfriends in my life only a few so I am by no means good when it comes to relationships lol.
I have been talking to this girl for about a month via phone texting and she really seems to like me, which is great cuz I like her a lot. We have a lot in common and we frequently exchange some flirty messages. I asked her out on a first date and she said yes. However while discussing the first date she already alluded about a second date which tells me she already has more than 1 date planned with me. Does this mean that she has confidence that we will hit it off on the first date or am I just overthinking it? Dumb question, I know.
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Be easy player, relax and take it easy. Enjoy each moment and be you but just relax and take it easy mate. Focus on her, talk to her and share the same energy she got towards you. Lol but don’t stare at her, I don’t mean it that way. In short, don’t overthink it.
Slow down, don’t get ahead of yourself. See how the first date goes first before even thinking about the idea of a second date… Separate feelings from reality, ask yourself on the date and afterwards how you feel. If you vibe/connect well. You can’t say she’s the love of your life without going on a date yet. You’re putting her on a mental pedestal and never should do that. Never give anyone especially someone you don’t know well all your mental energy. Get to know her and ask questions. Take it one day at a time.