How do I shut down my feelings and emotions when I like somebody? I tend to give it all to them, but it’s getting to the point where I’m tired. I don’t even know how to operate it, and it’s never reciprocated back. I don’t fall in love, but I’m always feeling like giving that other person 100% of myself.
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Thinking more logically, and not let your emotions dictate your decisions. It messes a lot of guys up when they start to think with their emotions. You also need to stop getting invested too early and showing it. This is where most guys lose the woman’s attraction. Its also push and pull as well. It’s a complete shift mindset wise and there’s a whole lot to breakdown. If you have questions, I’ll be happy to answer wherever you’re confused at. It’s a complex thing
All or nothing aren’t the only two options.
Are you doing the most in an attempt to get them to like you back, see you as valuable, etc?
Increase your own self confidence and pride. You need to think of yourself as a winner and deserving the absolute best! You are winner! And you *allow* this person to be with you if they good enough.
Stay empathetic and kind, but having this mindset will help keep other people from being put on your mental pedestal.