I want to share a girl with my partner, but he always says that if someone else comes along in his life that he would maybe explore them and it just doesn’t make me feel secure to share another woman with him when he says things like that. Like I want to know my partner naturally wants to be with me, but I want us to be a cohesive unit in fucking another girl and not being afraid of him liking her and going out to fuck her without me.
Maybe I should wait for someone who I know will be my ride or die no matter what and then know that they will want to fuck another girl with me and me not be worried.
The thing is my partner hasn’t been with other girls but me so I’d rather him just go off on his own and we breakup and him explore other woman.
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Letting aside what he would or wouldn’t do, I think you just should feel very secure with your partner before trying it out .. the smallest thing you might see there may cause you to feel insecure and jealous .. for me sounds like you have three options either you want to do it so bad that you do it either way and it might go wrong and the relationship might be over, second you break up because you don’t feel secure in the relationship because you can’t abstain the fantasy or you just leave it as a fantasy. I can tell you I experience it, I did it for my bf because he wanted it, I didn’t I wasn’t ready and it backfired