What you will do if your partner asks you to buy her a really expensive bag?

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1. Ok. It’s stupid but I’m not going to say that as she walks past my gun room.

2. Tell her to get it herself because that’s not where I want to spend my money.

   I’ll love you in other ways, and if that ain’t good enough for you then step.

3. I’ll tell her to buy it herself. She’s fully capable of spending that kind of money without my involvement.

4. No. I wouldn’t date a girl who asked me to buy her luxury. It ain’t practical.

5. As we share our money I would have to say she can’t get, and then maybe get it as a birthday present or something (as long as it’s not extortionate)

   If we had separate money, I would happily let her buy it herself lol

6. I’d ask to hear more about this bag because that’s not really her thing so there must be something pretty cool about it.

7. Pull up our joint account and have a good laugh with her.

8. I don’t have a materialistic girl.. she’s a ‘bologna date’ as she calls herself.. she laughs at people who drink wine and wear Gucci.. got a real friend/life partner with this one (14 years)

9. “Cool, we’ll see about it” and consider it for her bday or Christmas if it’s reasonable/within my current limited budget as she knows I am a student again.

10. If she’s a girlfriend, I’ll tell her “You’re not my wife”.

    If she’s my wife, I’ll tell her “You’re not my girlfriend”.

    Jk, I’m very cheap and only buy things on special occasions for very special people.

11. Laugh and rethink my life choices.

12. “What exactly do you think this relationship is? A, no. B, I’m not your Dad nor is that the role I want here… So bye, I won’t be seeing you.”

13. I’ve bought her 2 Louis Vuitton bags, a Salvatore Ferragamo bag, a Gucci bag, and a Chanel bag. Id tell her if she gets me a Rolex Kermit, I’ll buy her any bag she wants

14. “No”

15. If she’s my wife then I probably would.

16. Shrug and say, “I got a priceless bag for you dangling right here betweenst my legs, Mamacita.”

17. Id buy her the bag, I got mine 1 that cost 2K for Christmas in 2021
    It’s whatever you’ll make the money back quick

18. 38F

    Depends on financial goals. If you have everything set and feel like you can afford it (and want to), why not? Designer bags are today’s diamond necklace.

    But I’d cautious. Designer bags can be like tattoos —-> most people don’t just have one.

19. “buy her”? Nope… Its the new millennium… Buy your own shit.

20. Depends on how long we’ve been together and if it’s for a special reason like an anniversary or birthday Christmas etc. to me a purse/bag is a utility item. It should be comfortable to carry and have proper pockets zippers functionality. Most women see them as fashion statements. However any women whose talked about an overly expensive bag that just looks hideous, I always make sure I mention how ugly it is.

21. Wonder who she is and what she’s done with my wife.

    She usually asks for stuff for the garden.

22. If it’s her dream to have that bag, sure, treat her to an early christmas present. Why not?

23. I wouldn’t buy it

24. I hate having to pay for $0.30 compostable bags at the grocery store.