I’ve (24M) been seeing two girls right now for 5+ dates and I’m curious how much you guys would care about dating a girl who is always working.
I like them both a lot but one is always busy (26F) with work and can only see maybe 2x a week. Works long hours sometimes till midnight and on weekends and makes ~$310k.
The other (22F) works a typical 9-5 makes ~$130k and I could see everyday if I wanted to.
Do you think it can cause a strain in the relationship if your partner is always busy with work but makes more? Would you prefer someone who is less busy and more readily available? I make $110k so less than both if that matters.
I’m equally attracted and get along great with both – I’ve never been in a situation where I have to choose between two girls – always only gone on dates with one. Shitty situation to be in.
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If the choice isn’t obvious, the choice is neither.
Why are you deciding which girl to date based on how much money they make per year? Which one do you like more? Who do you find yourself thinking about, who gives you butterflies? Compatibility is important, but people work out their busy work schedules for relationships that have connection.
What kind of alternate reality is this where 3 people under 30 years old are all making over $100,000 a year?
If I were you I would try to figure out which one takes you seriously. The one who is only available 2x per week would be no no. Why? Because she will never have time for you. History always shows that when a woman makes more money than their spouse they usually don’t show them the respect that they would for a male who out earns them. So if you areblooking to take the relationship to the next level you should look for the following.
Who do you see that will be there for you?
Which one priorities align with yours?
Which one looks like the have another relationship outside of you? Personally, I believe a woman that only can see you 2x per week is seeing someone else.
When I was younger I had 3 girls that I was juggling and I chose the one who put me first and did not go out with her girlfriends on girls trip and she always had an open phone policy. Best of luck!!!