I had to move alone in another country for studying, and I struggle to always talk with familly and friends, just to say “hey, i’m alive, did you forget me ?”.
I’m not the kind of people that needs to talk everyday, but i feel a lot of guilty because my familly already told me that I don’t call them enough, and i don’t want to hurt people I love, but this is exhausting for an introvert like me. I had to plan in my calendar days where i will call a particular person. I feel that i’m not normal, I don’t know if someone have the same problem here.
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People drift. That’s just what it is. Try all you want, but it’s a sad fact of life. But yes, put a call to your family in your schedule. That’s non optional as long as you want to be on good terms with them.