So let me start out by saying, yes, I know this is some real tiny violin shit right here. But it’s still my feelings, and my feelings are valid damn it lol.
I will admit that I am abnormally well hung, which for most of my adult life has been a point of pride. Big dick energy is real. But my fwb just broke things off and told me that I’m too big, and sex is not enjoyable. To make matters worse, this is not the first relationship ended recently because of this.
It’s really thrown me for a loop. It’s affecting my self esteem and confidence, and I’m just sort of feeling like I’m regressing sexually? I’ve always tried to be conscious of my size and not be too aggressive. Can any dudes offer some advice for positions that work better when you’re really big? Any women that have been with big partners that can give some advice as to what works for them? I’ll take anything I can get at this point.
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Very sorry, sucks to have someone need to leave you because of something out of your control.
Take a look at /r/BigDickProblems
Search their history of posts, keywords like partner and relationships.
Basically most of the advice is:
* dedicate 30 min of foreplay to get her to cum once or twice prior
* use lube
* her on top, spooning, prone bone
* slow beginnings
* depth control/discipline
* constant communication with your partner about their comfort
* avoiding too frequent/long sex, or 2nd & 3rd rounds
Good luck!
Right on Tinder: ‘My dick has a bad habit of scaring off the ladies so I’ve learned to just be upfront about my measurements: [your measurements]. If that sounds like more mandle than you can handle then let’s save us both a bad time.’
Some might see it an insincere advertisement, but I think you’ll get a decent amount of action from ladies who prefer bigger and those who have never been with someone bigger and are curious.
If they ask for pics, send them a teasing pic but tell them if they want the full faceful they gotta come get it in person.