So I have this friend who constantly gaslights me and tries to overpower me and points out bad things about me. He is very disrespectful and basically leaves jo chance to insult me in front of others, we have a common friend group. I showed him sympathy and forgave him the last time he did this because he had issues going on in life, but he did that again yesterday, he goes on like, why do you feel you have less friends and people don’t like you, it’s because you’re this and that and ge basically tries to get to me every time. I know the best way is to cutoff all ties but you can’t just do that right. He’s kinda popular in uni and has an influence and I tried to ignore him but dosent work, what else can I do?
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A person that consistently belittles you is not your friend. Friends help each other and are there for one another – they don’t try to make others less than in their friend circle to raise themselves up.
Find better people to call friends. This person seems like a jerk.
“Go flirt with someone else. I’m taken.”