Hi I am 18m. I got out of a relationship about 3-4 months ago and have been in no contact for two. I am finally over it and don’t feel the need to break no contact ever again, but I just crave the sex we used to have. Whenever I hookup with girls off dating apps, I always feel weird afterwards… like a sense of guilt. I always look back at those hookups with disgust and regret, they just are never enjoyable. Sex with my ex was great and I was very comfortable with her, also loved giving her oral and that is something I am repulsed to. How can I get over cravings/ fantasies? Do I just have sex with someone hotter? I have a few girls that are objectively attractive and can tell are down for me as long as I just play my cards right.
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Yikes. No. Sleeping around like this isn’t going to satisfy anything you’re craving.. sounds like you need real connection with someone you care about and who cares about you.. one night stands won’t help here.